Monday, May 6, 2013
On the Road Again
(continued from "Fuel up, we've got a road trip!" )
As we approached the Mexico boarder in the cool early morning air, the 2 cars containing all 13 members of our family, eased through the passage and quickly navigated the tiny streets to the by-pass around Juarez. The sun started to rise in the sky and the clean roads stretched out in front of us. Things were off to a fabulous start!
The media, over the last few years, has portrayed Mexico and specifically Juarez and Chihuahua city as the biggest nightmare on the planet. The horrific stories of abduction and tourist fatalities are enough to scare anyone into bombing the country let alone ever traveling there. But what we found, was a pleasant country that is easily navigated if you are smart about it and plan to travel safely; do not travel at night and stay on the toll roads. Juarez (which we drove directly through on the way back) has been depicted as a gang war that carries on all day and all night, an impassable place where they are stacking bodies on one side of the road and cars on the other, but what it really is, is a lot of people, a lot of Americans even, working. Ya, just people working. People walking around buying tacos from stands and chatting with each other. We didn't hear even one machine gun spray fire! Now that doesn't mean I think you should don your hot pink mini skirt and walk the streets at night, but the idea we have and fear we provoke in each other seems a little bit out of wack.
Our spirits lifted as we drove and we found ourselves relaxing ever so slightly. We pulled in to the immigration stop, which we found empty, no lines and no waiting! Thrilled we filled out our papers and the kids had a chance to run around. We registered our cars and felt like the smartest travelers ever. And then...trouble. Turns out there is an issue with people taking American cars to Mexico and selling them, so the person the car is registered to needs to be with the car. No problem since we were driving my mother-in-law's car and she was with us, she even had a certified letter from her husband (who would be flying to meet us after he completed his work that week). What we did not anticipate was that the 2nd car in our group, which had been selected due to it's 'blending in' ability, was also registered to my mother-in-law, Jane. She can't drive 2 cars into Mexico. So the Mexican officers insisted we show a birth certificate for my husband, Jesse, or his brother, Chris, to prove they were related to Jane. Now I don't know about you, but we don't travel with anything but our passports so this was a definite issue. After some time begging, they agreed to a faxed copy. Yay! Only now we had to contact someone back at home and get them into Chris' house to find his birth certifcate and fax it to...where? The office didn't have a fax!
2 hours later, some lovely trash art made by our boys, a bloody toe from a rusty bolt and one faxed birth certificate later, we managed to get approval. Don't ask where we finally found a fax, that is a blog of its own.
Back on the road, way behind schedule. We found ourselves a decent way into Chihuahua state, the next step in survival traveling. We stopped at clean, safe rest stops along the way and found ourselves more and more surprised by how clean and how safe it was...despite our preconceived notions. Chihuahua city was a surprise too; clean and lovely, no piles of bodies or gun fire anywhere. The only bummer was a speeding ticket and sleazy pay-the-cop-and-go experience. On the up side we got to see a side of my sister-in-law we've never seen, she wouldn't put up with harassment and bartered with the cop, she was a total badass.
We stayed the 1st night in a charming little hotel in Jimenez, south of Chihuahua city. It was 6pm and there were still plenty of hours of sunlight, but with the unknown looming ahead, and pale shaken voices of fear ringing out about driving in Zacatecas at night, we decided it best to give everyone some rest. As we settled ourselves, stretched our legs and enjoyed a glass of wine... out of cut plastic water bottles, the hotel quickly filled up. We came to find out that everyone gets off the road at dusk and there were no hotels, no towns, no gas for hours down the road. It was a smart decision to stop when we did and we patted ourselves on the back for it. Other Mexican travelers stopped to chat with us and kindly welcomed us to their country. The wine eased our stress and smiles returned to our faces. Tomorrow we would brave Zacatecas, but for now, we would enjoy the warm air and the sound of our children laughing.
*As a side note, when you forget wine glasses or are caught on the road in Mexico without them. A quick fix is to take an empty water bottle, cut it in half (or with a large bottle, cut about 4 inches up from the base) using your wine key's knife. If you do not have a knife on your wine key, you obviously have the wrong wine key and need to buy one from Vivác Winery. The possibility of cutting your lip on these glasses is a distinct possibility, but hey you have wine so no complaining.
(to be continued...)
-Cheers from the Vivác Winery Family!
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Thursday, May 2, 2013
Fuel up, we've got a road trip!
"Fueled by Vivác" hit the road and traveled to Mexico...by car, with our families. Yep we are crazy.
So why did we take on driving from the USA through some of what the media has proclaimed "the most dangerous areas in North America" into central Mexico? My husband's brother Chris and his wife Liliana (who is originally from Aguascalientes, Mexico) had decided to drive back home to visit family; a result of not being able to afford plane flights for a family of 4. Well, as everything starts in our Vivác world, over a table of great food and lots of wine, we tried to talk them out of this insane trip, and then the wine seemed to talk US into it!
It is important to understand that Aguascalientes is a beautiful city located in the state of Aguascalientes, a little confusing, but think of it like New York city which is in New York state. This is an area that shows a side of Mexico that many people never get to see and Liliana's family are some of the most generous, loving people you have ever met...who happen to be the best chefs ever. No really ever, I crave their homemade salsas, meat dishes and molé on a regular basis, oh man that molé is amazing (cue scene from the movie "Chocolate" where everyone is in ecstasy over the chocolate sauce poured over the chicken at the birthday party...this could only have been Liliana's family recipe). Anyway, a few bottles of wine later, we were all driving to Mexico!
The plan developed as such: we would pack the kids and the grandparents, 13 people total, into 2 cars and caravan down. We chose the cars that would blend in the most and agreed to only drive the expensive toll roads and only during the day. This also meant very limited stops, with 3 small children. How would we manage a 22 hour drive under these conditions? Well we aren't "Fueled by Vivác" for nothing! We also determined that it was mandatory to squeeze in 3 cases of wine. Who needs foot room anyway?
The days leading up to the trip, my husband and I spent working in southern NM, making sure the entire state of NM is fully "Fueled", the rest of the group met us in El Paso and we stayed a final night at the USA/ Mexico boarder. That was a sleepless night. All the stories of horrific crimes, torture and cruelty flooded our minds. What are we doing driving our small children and families into the depth of danger? The stress mounted and the fear was palpable as we hit the road early the next morning.
(to be continued...)
-Cheers from the Vivác Winery Family!
www.vivacwinery.com
Friday, March 8, 2013
Deep Thoughts
As I sit on my patio with the warm sun shining down on me and sip my chilled glass of Vivác Chardonnay, my mind turns to running. I think how this is a perfect, beautiful day to go for a run. I think how great I would feel after getting back on track. I wonder if I should look up races coming up and start training. My chardonnay tastes incredible.
I gaze at my bare feet resting on the chair opposite me. They look different. No bruised toenails, no blisters or strange bumps. Wow, it has been a long time since I ran. I wonder if I want to hurt the way it hurts when you push your body during training. I wonder if I should pour more wine.
As the soft ripple of wine pours into my glass a sudden thought occurs to me! I have only been running as a form of training, but never allowed myself to simply run for pleasure! Of course prior to this whole running thing, I thought you only ran if something was chasing you so I guess I have no point of reference when it comes to "running for pleasure".
That's it, I will run for fun! Except now I have had 2 glasses of wine so it will have to wait till tomorrow.
(Today's blog has been brought to you by Vivác Chardonnay)
-Cheers from the Vivác Winery Family!
www.vivacwinery.com
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Every Step You Take
"Every step you take...every move you make...I'll be watching you..." you know when you get a song stuck in your head and you have no idea why? I don't think I have heard that 'Police' song in ages.
Ahhh...morning stretch in bed. I briefly consider going for a run. As my mind clears I realize I need coffee and my long day of work ahead needs me to focus. I swing my legs out of bed and onto the floor where I promptly trip over my running shoes stubbing my toe on the bed frame, now I really can't go for a run! Bastard things, what the hell are they doing there anyway?
A couple days later finds me with running shoes on, dressed to hit the road when my mother calls me. I stretch across the bed and chat with her, it is rude not to talk to your mom for at least an hour. As I hang up the phone, I feel the sun shinning in the window warming me. I think about how cold it is outside. I decide a short nap is in order. As I awaken, I see it wasn't such a short nap after all! I guess I'll run tomorrow. I stand up ready to head back to my pile of work and promptly trip over my damned running shoes causing me to fall into the wall and hit my head! Bastard things, what the hell are they doing there anyway! Hey weren't they ON my feet when I laid down?
Another day goes by and I find that every time I walk into my closet, the "running" drawer is more and more a pile of cascading clothes and it rather looks like a face with it's tongue sticking out. Hmmm, odd. It makes me feel too guilty to straighten the running clothes so I close the door to the closet instead. There, all better, out of sight out of mind. And then I trip over my running shoes. Seriously?! What the hell is going on? And when did I end up with so many pairs of running shoes? Isn't one pair enough? I have 4. My husband has 6.
"Every step you take...every move you make...I'll be...TRIPPING YOU" I laugh to myself.
It has now been a week that I haven't 'managed' to get out for a run. Man that really went fast. I decide that I need to at least jump on the dreaded treadmill. I head in to change and see I forgot to finish folding the laundry. Of course you can't just leave the laundry in a pile on the bed...the run will happen after that. Oh and I have to put the laundry in everyone's closets. Hmmm...nothing fits in my "running" drawer anymore.
Once done with my chores, it is dusk, the family is due home soon and I will need to prepare dinner. Ooh and I need a glass of wine. Wow, I seem so domesticated today. Funny I am not nearly this 'domestic' on days I haven't decided to run. As I decide to skip the run, yet again, I hear a crash in the closet taking me back into the bedroom. My "running" drawer has jumped from its hold and landed on the floor exploding clothes everywhere! In the wake of its avalanche, it has managed to take down several pairs of shoes from their near by perch. Guess which shoes? Yep, my running shoes! Now why did my high heels manage to escape the crash? As I stoop to unearth the drawer, a lone final running shoe jumps from its place on the shelf and hits me square on the back of the head.
I have to say, I was furious! "What is with all the passive aggressive attacks? Look running gear, if you have something to say, SAY IT! Oh sure you're quite now, waiting to trip me again? That's it, I'm never running again!"
I stormed out of my closet and slammed the door...completely aware that I am officially a crazy person. I realize this is ridiculous and that I am battling my own resistance to starting on a new training plan. I know this, and yet I swear I hear "Every step you take...every move you make..."echoing from the closet.
-Cheers from the Vivác Winery Family!
www.VivacWinery.com
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
Cry me a river
As with all new sports I try, I spend a great deal of the time scared of it. My 1st raft trip was no different. Incredibly, after growing up in Northern New Mexico and having returned here as an adult, I never went white water rafting. I never saw the point. I can enjoy the beauty of the river from the bank without freezing cold water being splashed in my face or the white knuckle zeal of ramming into rocks totally out of control!
But alas, I married an out door, sports enthusiast. I decided to suck it up and see what all the fuss was about and joined New Mexico River Adventures for my 1st ride down the rapids. The company (who is guest blogging below), was professional, friendly and focused on a fun safe ride. Immediately I felt I was in capable hands and my neck slowly grew out of a lump of stress...which some people call shoulders. The guides moved the raft with skill and ease and were a wealth of information on the flora, fauna and history of the area. Even with a dip in the cool water, I found the thrill much more manageable, dare I say even intoxicating, than the horror I had pictured and found myself excitedly planning the next trip before I was even out of the boat! If you haven't been rafting before, it is a must.
Come Memorial Day weekend, we will have a 3 day float trip down the Chama. What makes this more amazing than any other kind of trip is that we will be accompanied by Chef Ky of "Lambert's Taos" fame. These extravagant wine dinners (uh did you think I would go somewhere without wine?!) are laid out on white linens and are complete with china and beautiful glassware. This is not the camping or rafting I grew up with!
Read on for a little write up from New Mexico River Adventures...the only raft company that wines and dines you.
-Cheers from the Vivác Winery Family!
www.vivacwinery.com
Rivers and Wine
Yes, it might seem like an unlikely pair until you've traveled to the beautiful Lower Rio Grande Gorge and enjoyed both. We are lucky enough to live in a part of the country that offers world class options for both. The wine making industry in this area, 1 hour north of Santa Fe and 20 min. south of Taos, is flourishing and the canyons containing the Rio Grande and Rio Chama are some of the most beautiful and exciting in the country. There are a large variety of things to do during your trip to Northern New Mexico, but the combination of a whitewater river rafting trip rewarded with an afternoon of wine tasting at Vivac Winery should be at the top of the list.
Just a short drive from Santa Fe or Taos takes you to the New Mexico River Adventures Headquarters where your river adventure begins. The Rio Grande offers trips for all ages and levels of excitement. The most popular trips on the Rio Grande are the Racecourse and the Taos Box. The Racecourse section is the perfect trip for first timers or those whitewater enthusiasts who only have a limited amount of time available. It is class II-III(IV at high water) and a great choice for everyone. The Racecourse trip is also run as a full day trip by adding a placid morning float through one of the most scenic parts of the canyon with great opportunities to see a variety of wildlife including mule deer, river otter, beaver and many different birds of prey.
The famous Taos Box river trip is truly one of the greatest single day rafting trips in the country. Nowhere else can you find the same quality whitewater in such a remote and pristine canyon with incredible wildlife viewing opportunities. The "Box" flows through the heart of the Rio Grande Gorge some 800 feet deep. After a superb riverside lunch prepared by the guides, the rafts continue into one of the most remote portions of the canyon. In the final five miles of this Taos box rafting trip, the gradient increases and the rapids become more intense and come in much quicker succession. Brace yourself in and paddle hard through these steep and visually stunning rapids! You are almost guaranteed to spot Rocky Mountain Bighorn Sheep leaping across boulders below the cliffs or enjoying a drink from the river as well as river otter and a large variety of birds of prey as you float through this spectacular canyon. Whichever trip you choose, you're sure to be rewarded with a highlight of your trip to Northern New Mexico.
www.NewMexicoRiverAdventures.com
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
Inspiration
The curious thing about inspiration is that you don't know where it will come from; a stream of consciousness post on Facebook or even a quick quip, a celebrity giving back in an extraordinary way or the kindness of a stranger. The pure poetry of nature...a gentle snow fall while sunlight strikes each snowflake magically turning the landscape to diamonds or the fleeting moment of a beautiful bird perched just outside the window can move you. For each of us, it is different, for each time of your life it will be different.
As I reach the mythical 7 year cycle, and my birthday that takes me to the year 35, I find that I am introspective. I am now officially not a kid, in fact I am approaching 40! Questions flood my head, 'what do I value?', 'am I the person I want to be?'. I thought for sure I would have run a second Marathon by now and instead I find running a daunting task. How is it that it is still so hard to motor my legs down the road? Why do my lungs burn and my mind scream in horror as I try to run a once easy trail? It isn't fair! I want it to be easy!
Then, completely out of the blue, my 6 year old son decided he wanted to run on our treadmill. I'm not sure if it was the countless races we have drug him to that sparked his curiosity or the countless stroller rides we subjected him to as we ran training runs, but I too remember a time when I thought the ghastly beast called a treadmill was friendly.
As his little body transitioned from the long, slightly awkward limbs into languid, graceful strides, it occurred to me that I was watching something extraordinary, something inspiring. The treadmill garnered more and more speed and he relished the idea of running faster and faster, unyielding to our pleas to take it easy. Finally at 3 1/2 miles, we coaxed him to stop. He beamed up at us and announced "I think I will do this a couple times a week...you know, to blow off steam.". Not bad for his 1st real run!
I realized that I too had once enjoyed running, as a child we all did. When did it become a chore? I replayed the images of his stride lengthening, stretching out, allowing him to feel free and uninhibited. Suddenly I was struck with the power of not taking it so seriously, using running to "blow off stream". Embracing running for the gift that it is, the time and space to have as your own and let your body move. As is the incredible gift of a child's clarity, my son's actions and enthusiasm spoke to me. Maybe, just maybe, this isn't hard. Maybe, just maybe, it is my thinking about it that is making running so hard.
Now, I'm not going to lie, climbing back on the beast after a long break is not easy, but the reward was the feeling of moving again. My knees moaned a bit and it took several minutes to easy into my stride, but I had silence finally from my constant over working mind. No more lists and reminders, no more bad self talk, just my body moving.
As I finished my run, my charming boy greeted me with the echo of my own words to him "I'm proud of you." and you know what? I am proud of me too.
Now where is that glass of wine I've earned?
-Cheers from the Vivác Winery Family!
www.vivacwinery.com
Friday, January 11, 2013
Too. Much. Fuel.
With New Year's Day only a breath behind us, I promptly boarded a plane to Vegas. And yes I did vow just as all of you did to drink less and exercise more, eat better and get more sleep, so doesn't it make sense that I should start the year off with a Ladies trip to Vegas? Of course!
The entire time I was in Vegas, my running shoes never escaped the binds of my suitcase, but hey points for packing them right? My eating habits turned to the most indulgent of pleasures and my drinking? Well...they give you free champagne all over the city! What is a girl to do? Needless to say, on the plane ride home, I sat... half drunk, half hungover (a terrible combination) and I realized just how terribly I did with my new resolutions, in fact it was as if I had stood before the mighty New Year's God and announced my resolutions, then went hysterically laughing, naked and crazy down the street in the other direction. Thank goodness that is not a metaphor for what actually did happen in Vegas...no naked running down the street.
Once back at home, I decided that I needed to be a little less "Fueled by Vivac" and started a cleanse. I dutifully did my research seeking a good cleanse...on Facebook, and determined my own "Vegas detox". Honestly I live in the middle of no where and since I was gone for 3 days, there was literally no groceries in the house so it limited my possibilities. Lemon and water became my tonic and I struggled to add veggies and fruit. I cut out caffeine, alcohol (cue gasps of horror), wheat (which I do anyway, but should still get credit for), refined sugar and dairy. By day 2 I needed to have a hard boiled egg in addition to this crazy diet. Day 3 I forgot I wasn't eating cheese and by that evening had the DT's and broke down to have a glass of wine. A glass of the most divine, luscious, nectar ...Vivac Tempranillo. So evidently I do a cleanse a bit like I handle my resolutions.
However, I haven't failed miserably at it all. I learned to scale my "laws of the new year" and have decided total restriction isn't the answer, but portion control is. A good night sleep naturally means less caffeine needed the next day and while we have become a crazed running family over the last couple years, ANY exercise is better than none. And finally, but most importantly...if you start drinking at lunch, you can consume your necessary, daily 4 glasses of wine without ever feeling the ill effects!
So I leave you to ponder your New Year's Resolutions, ask if you can really keep up with the demands you have set for yourself. I recommend you do this over a glass of wine...we don't want to jump into anything too quickly, it is only mid January after all and resolutions don't truly start till February 1st...right?
-Cheers from the Vivác Winery Family!
www.VivacWinery.com
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